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Mastery Mondays

Choices & Decisions

Decisions Under Pressure

Some of the best advice I’ve ever heard is this: when you feel like you have no choice, you will inevitably make the wrong decision. 

Decisions made under immense pressure can often feel like we are robbed of choice.

We tell ourselves this narrative that the only option is     .

But 99% of the time, that is false. There are usually multiple options - but some of them have difficult consequences that make us feel like we have no choice. (Or it isn’t what we want to do)

Think about the last time you were making a difficult decision under pressure. Did you make a good decision? Were you able to objectively look at all the options? Or did you feel like there was only one decision to make? 

In the last 2 years, the housing market has gone crazy where I live (it’s gone crazy everywhere!)

My husband and I were feeling desperate to buy into the market. The frenzy drove us to believe that we had no choice but to bid tens of thousands of dollars over asking price (even hundreds of thousands over).

We were feeling like we had no choice. We wanted to get into the market, and therefore we believed that we had very little choice.

That’s when I was reminded of that advice - if you feel like you have no choice, you will inevitable make the wrong decision.

We had been bidding on houses that we didn’t even like, all because we felt like we had no choice.
But the truth is, we had plenty of choices. We could choose to wait until the market slowed down, we could rent for the time being, we could offer what we felt was reasonable for a property, we could wait until a property came available that we actually liked and wanted…we had plenty of choices. We had just convinced ourselves that we were pigeon holed.

Thankfully for us, that advice clicked. We decided to hold off on making a housing decision under pressure where we felt like we had no choice.

Because the truth is, we always have choices - even when we have to make decisions under pressure.

Recommended Book

The Art of Decision Making

Mar 27, 2020
ISBN: 9781913036287

Interesting Fact #1

One of my favorite ways to make crucial decisions is to use Jeff Bezos' famous 70% rule. Make decisions with 70% of the information you wish you had. Yes, everything is not figured out but if you don't do it, will someone else? Weigh the need for accuracy over good enough data for speedy decisions. In some cases, if you wait for more information, you could be late and lose. Of course, you will need to adapt and change eventually but get moving.

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Interesting Fact #2

Gather as much information as possible, purposefully seeking out good and bad points. Often, we will find options or information that reconfirm our own beliefs and occasionally we do this subconsciously. Therefore, it is important to recognize this, and by doing so, you will manage the process of change more effectively.

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Interesting Fact #3

Regardless of timing, make sure you understand the assumptions upon which any decision is based, the likelihood that these assumptions are correct and what will likely happen if one or more of your assumptions are incorrect. If you are highly confident your assumptions are correct and you can live with the likely outcome associated with being incorrect, it's a safe decision.

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Quote of the day

"We discover our character through decisions under pressure." -Dan Millman

Article of the day - The Decision Making Guide: How to Make Smart Decisions and Avoid Bad Ones

What is Decision Making?

Let's define decision making. Decision making is just what it sounds like: the action or process of making decisions. Sometimes we make logical decisions, but there are many times when we make emotional, irrational, and confusing choices. This page covers why we make poor decisions and discusses useful frameworks to expand your decision-making toolbox.

Why We Make Poor Decisions

I like to think of myself as a rational person, but I’m not one. The good news is it’s not just me — or you. We are all irrational. For a long time, researchers and economists believed that humans made logical, well-considered decisions. In recent decades, however, researchers have uncovered a wide range of mental errors that derail our thinking. The articles below outline where we often go wrong and what to do about it.

  • 5 Common Mental Errors That Sway You From Making Good Decisions: Let's talk about the mental errors that show up most frequently in our lives and break them down in easy-to-understand language. This article outlines how survivorship bias, loss aversion, the availability heuristic, anchoring, and confirmation bias sway you from making good decisions.
  • How to Spot a Common Mental Error That Leads to Misguided Thinking: Hundreds of psychology studies have proven that we tend to overestimate the importance of events we can easily recall and underestimate the importance of events we have trouble recalling. Psychologists refer to this little brain mistake as an “illusory correlation.” In this article, we talk about a simple strategy you can use to spot your hidden assumptions and prevent yourself from making an illusory correlation.
  • Two Harvard Professors Reveal One Reason Our Brains Love to Procrastinate: We have a tendency to care too much about our present selves and not enough about our future selves. If you want to beat procrastination and make better long-term choices, then you have to find a way to make your present self act in the best interest of your future self. This article breaks down three simple ways to do just that.

How to Use Mental Models for Smart Decision Making

The smartest way to improve your decision making skills is to learn mental models. A mental model is a framework or theory that helps to explain why the world works the way it does. Each mental model is a concept that helps us make sense of the world and offers a way of looking at the problems of life.

You can learn more about mental models, read how Nobel Prize-winning physicist Richard Feynman uses mental models, or browse a few of the most important mental models below.

Top Mental Models to Improve Your Decision Making

Question of the day - Have you ever made a poor decision under pressure when you felt like you had no option?

Choices & Decisions

Have you ever made a poor decision under pressure when you felt like you had no option?