Introduction to Anal Sex
Anal sex used to be taboo back in the day, but it has become quite mainstream mostly because of digital pornography. While those who have done it might be familiar with what are the associated complications but for those who have not, this article is must-read.
This is because we are going to share some great tips which you can make use of and have real pleasurable anal sex. Being aware of these tips is crucial because you might seriously mess up things.
Here are the tips which we were talking about. Do share your experiences with us in the comments section of this article after trying these tips. We greatly look forward to your reply.
Best Anal Sex Tips
- Always make use of a condom
This is the first and foremost thing to take care of while having anal sex as a guy. This is because having unprotected anal sex is unnecessarily inviting diseases like HPV, HIV, Gonorrhea, and Chlamydia.
This becomes even more so important because these diseases though curable, cause a lot of damage to the human body. Another thing to pay attention to is that in case you are going to have vaginal sex after having anal sex, then you must change the condom that you are using.
This is because the anus does contain bacteria and unhealthy anal sex practices can result in E. Coli and Hepatitis A and infecting your partner knowingly would be the last thing which you would want to do.
Hence, be safe and use condoms no matter whichever type of sexual activity you are engaging in. Safe sex is the best sex.
- Enema is not a necessary thing at all.
Some people think that enema is quite necessary while having anal sex. But this is not the case. You can wash before having anal and that would be fine too. But do not take this as we are completely saying no to enema.
You can of course make use of an enema. But do remember that it might get complicated and can irritate your intestinal lining and anus as per the medical experts. After all, like other minor procedures, it also has its own pros and cons.
We recommend that you research things well before deciding to go with or without an enema. After all, making an informed decision is the best course of action that can be taken.
- Decide upon a safe word beforehand.
This is especially vital because you might think of your partner's moan to be a sign of pleasure rather than pain. Remember, the basic goal of having anal sex is to enjoy it. It is notworth it if your partner or you feelpain or discomfort.
Communication is always the key which helps you enjoy sexual activities. Hence, it is in the best interest of both parties to decide upon a safe word which when spoken will imply that you must stop doing what you are doing.
- Start in a slow manner or fashion!
Many couples rush through things when they first try anal sex. This is not exactly great because rushing things will not ensure optimum results. Start with proper foreplay. Make your partner feel comfortable and at ease.
Then proceed with anal foreplay too. If you go slow, for sure you will enjoy the whole process and the experience will become memorable as well. Remember, it is not some kind of a race that you have to win by going through it in a fast manner. Go slow and savor every single moment of it as you do so.
- Make use of lube or other lubricants!
Yes, this is in fact very necessary. This is because unlike the vagina, the anus does not release any lubricants to make the sex less painful. We would advise you to use lots and lots of lubricant so that you can smooth and pain-free anal sex.
It is also recommended to make use of silicone-based lube instead of a water-based one as the water-based one can dry with time. Do not use water because it is not that effective lubricant and, we will advise you against using any kind of oil as it is not exactly hygienic.
- You can try a sex toy too.
This is perhaps another thing that you can try on your first time instead of direct penetration. Toys like a butt plug will definitely help you and your partner get comfortable with anal sex. For the first few sessions, you can use these toys and after a while, you can go with penetration.
Toys these days are well-designed by engineers and designers and hence, maximum possible pleasure from them is almost guaranteed for you and your partner. Another great thing about toys is that they are cheap too and worth the money.