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Relationships Sundays

Love, Dating & Marriage

Anniversary Getaway

My husband and I have been trying to get away for an anniversary trip since January. It seems like the proverbial universe is against us.

We have a very unusual anniversary of January 2. It is so close to Christmas and New Years that by the time our anniversary rolls around each year, we are kind of “celebrated/partied out.”

The reason that we ended up with this particular date for our wedding was that my grandma was already coming to visit my family for Christmas that year. My grandma has since passed away, but at the time she lived close to 3000 miles away - west coast of Canada to the east coast of Canada. So rather than have the wedding a month later like we had planned, we opted to move the date up so that my grandma was able to attend.

Now, 15 years later we have rarely celebrated our anniversary. Some years we have gone out for a meal, some years we have ordered in, some years we have been sick in bed, and some years we have just had a glass of wine together in the evenings. In 15 years we have never gone away for our anniversary.

Seeing as how it was our 15th this year, we decided to try for a night away at a resort. My mom had planned to watch our kids. We were excited and so were they!

Well wouldn’t you know that we all ended up sick over Christmas - it was a horrible flu that took almost a whole week to get through. Then, by New Years Eve, my mom was coming down with it. We knew that she would not be ready to have our kids overnight by January 2nd, so we cancelled and decided to try to go a few weeks later.

January went by in a haze of illness for our family and before we knew it February was upon us. We tried to book the getaway for February and then my mom got a call from her best friend who lives about 6 hours away - she was waiting for a surgery date for a hip replacement and they had a cancellation for the next day. My mom had promised to go up and stay with her to help with the recovery for a few weeks. So we cancelled again.

Then in March we had other plans and in April my parents were headed away for a 3 week holiday.

So here we are in mid-May still waiting to get away for our January anniversary. At this point it’s become a joke that we are all laughing about. One day we will make it…maybe by our 20th anniversary!

We still have plans to try and make it happen but if it goes anything like the last few months, it will take a miracle for us to pull it off! 

Tell me, what is your most memorable anniversary getaway?

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Interesting Fact #1

Historically, the origin of the wedding anniversary can be traced back to the Holy Roman Empire. During this time, husbands celebrated their wives by crowning them on particular landmark years.

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Interesting Fact #2

Traditions in the Commonwealth can be traced back to earlier times, especially since the significance of wedding anniversaries are highly regarded in Commonwealth nations. For couples who want to participate in receiving a special memorandum by the Monarch, they can apply for this recognition in the succession of the 60th, 65th and the 70th wedding anniversary celebrations.

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Interesting Fact #3

The anniversaries of Canadian residents are recognized by the Governor General in the form of a special message on the 50th wedding anniversary, and upon every five years thereafter. The US has its own traditions, which includes the sending of greetings by the President on the 50th anniversary, and any subsequent years following.

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Quote of the day

“However, you forgot our anniversary date , but it does not matter because I know that you may have forgotten the date but you haven't forgotten my value in your life.” ― Shattered Girl

Article of the day - Everything You Need To Know About the Golden Anniversary

The 50th wedding anniversary, aka the golden anniversary, is a truly special occasion for any married couple. Not only does it mark half a century of love, but it also commemorates the many memories, joys, and hardships shared in the marriage. Let's discuss this one-in-a-lifetime event in more detail.

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Historical BackgroundHow to Celebrate Your Golden AniversaryThe Best Golden Anniversary Gifts

Historical Background

The concept of assigning different gifts for each wedding anniversary has been traced back to medieval Germany. It became customary for wives to receive a silver wreath after 25 years of marriage and a gold wreath after 50 years. During the mid-1800s, this custom began to gain popularity in English-speaking countries, coinciding with the rise of love matches.

By the early 1900s, a comprehensive list of anniversary gifts had been created, which we still use today. Each gift symbolizes the relationship's beauty, durability, and strength. Longer and more lasting marriages traditionally have gifts with more precious materials.

How to Celebrate Your Golden Aniversary

Your golden anniversary is a momentous occasion, so it should be celebrated with the utmost enthusiasm. After all, you’ve spent over half a century with your partner! If you really want to mark this occasion, here are a few things you can do:

  • Wedding Vow Renewal Ceremony: Renewing your marriage vows is a special way to honor your dedication to one another. You can either host an intimate ceremony or a full-on reception to celebrate your undying love.
  • Lavish Vacation: If you had a destination on your bucket list that you both had wanted to visit, now might be the perfect time to go there! Plan for a romantic getaway with your partner, partaking in activities that are memorable. If you're both daredevils, consider activities like skydiving, helicopter rides, or paragliding!
  • Spa Day: If your partner loves to get pampered, a great idea to celebrate your wedding anniversary is to book a spa offering myriad services and spend the day there. It is a great way to rejuvenate while spending some quality time together.

Whatever type of celebration you choose, make sure it matches your and your partner's preferences and passions. So, make your golden anniversary a day to remember!

The Best Golden Anniversary Gifts

Gifts are, essentially, a way to show your love for your partner and make them feel special. Here are the best options to consider giving your significant other on your golden anniversary.

Classic Diamond Jewelry

For 50th wedding anniversary gifts, jewelry is a timeless and classic choice. It comes in various styles that match any taste, from classic diamond earrings to more modern, statement-making necklaces.

If you're unsure what your spouse would prefer, think about what type of jewelry they already wear; if they don't wear much, consider a classic necklace or bracelet instead. Depending on your spouse's preference, you can choose between various shapes, such as round, heart, pear, or emerald, among others. You can also customize the jewelry by adding their initials to make the piece even more sentimental. No matter what you choose, keep your partner’s interest in mind.

Golden Vacation

If you want to stick to the golden anniversary theme, going on a vacation is a great way to show appreciation for someone special. A trip to a place known for its golden resources may be the perfect way to surprise them!

The Gold Coast Hotel and Casino in Las Vegas is a great option, as it has a luxurious atmosphere and never ending entertainment options. Australia's Gold Coast is another wonderful option, offering plenty of beaches, rainforest walks, and wildlife to explore. Dubai's Golden Sands hotel is another great choice, with stunning views, luxurious amenities, and plenty of activities.

For those looking for something really unique, a gold panning trip in California might be the perfect gift. You can rent a car or RV and go on a road trip to California's famous gold rush towns. Stop by the local river, pan for gold, and take home a special souvenir from your trip.

No matter which destination you choose, your special someone is sure to appreciate the thought and effort you put into planning the perfect gift!

Handmade, Sentimental Gifts

There are numerous presents you can make for your partner to commemorate your 50th wedding anniversary, such as:

  • Put together a tape with songs from the time you got married. This can be a great way to transport you and your partner back to the time of your wedding and relive those special memories.
  • Write a poem in gold ink, and display it in a gold-colored frame. This way, you'll create a beautiful and meaningful piece of art that can be hung in the home.
  • Put together a family quilt with each square done by family members and close friends. This can be a great way to bring the family together and provide a physical reminder of love and all the members who have been part of your lives for the past fifty years.

Encapsulate Your Everlasting Love with Diamonds That Last a Lifetime

The golden anniversary is a significant milestone that deserves to be celebrated. From traditional gifts to sentimental poems, there are many ways to mark this particular moment. You can make your golden anniversary an unforgettable celebration with a bit of planning and creativity.

For many, custom jewelry perfectly symbolizes love, commitment, and togetherness. Getting premium quality gold jewelry from With Clarity is a great way to celebrate your golden wedding anniversary.

With Clarity offers a hassle-free return policy, lifetime warranty, and free shipping. You can also consult with experts to bring your vision to life. Their products are designed to last, ensuring you and your partner have a symbol of your love to always hold on to.

Question of the day - What is your most memorable anniversary getaway?

Love, Dating & Marriage

What is your most memorable anniversary getaway?