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Determination & Achievement

Babies Learning To Walk

If you feel like giving up in a particular area of your life, remember the importance of perseverance.

One of the greatest examples of perseverance is watching babies learn new things. They fail SO.MANY.TIMES but they do not give up.

Think about a baby learning to walk. They fall down time and time again but they keep getting back up.

A baby is not worried about how foolish they look while they are learning - they don’t give a single thought to what anyone else thinks.They have one goal in mind: to stand on their own two feet and move independently. Every stumble is a lesson in how to move forward. Even when they fall they are learning. There’s a natural drive within them that pushes them forward, despite the challenges of learning.

We, as adults, often lose that unshakeable determination. We become self-conscious and afraid of failure. Even more than that, we get easily discouraged by setbacks and we give up. We tell ourselves that something is too hard when we don’t succeed immediately. The irony of it is that we actually fail when we quit, but we so often quit anyway! What if, instead, we approached our challenges with the same fearless spirit as a baby learning to walk?

Imagine if a baby decided walking wasn't for them and just stayed crawling, simply because they fell down a few times. It sounds ridiculous, doesn't it? Yet, in our own lives, we often abandon goals after just a few attempts. We forget that mastery comes through consistent effort, through picking ourselves up after every fall, and through learning from each stumble.

Whether you're trying to learn a new skill, achieve a professional goal, or overcome a personal challenge, learn to channel your inner toddler! Embrace the falls, laugh at the awkward moments, and keep your eye on the prize. Don't let the fear of looking foolish or the embarrassment of temporary failure deter you. Just like that baby, with every attempt, you're building strength, developing balance, and moving closer to your ultimate goal. Perseverance isn't about never falling; it's about always getting back up, just like a baby who is learning to walk.

Interesting Fact #1

90% of healthy, typically developing children will take their first steps sometime between 9 and 15 months of age.

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Interesting Fact #2

For a child to be able to walk, he must have the strength in the muscles in his trunk and hips to be able to move his arms and legs in a walking pattern. The brain must be able to send signals to the body to activate the correct muscles in the correct order, the sensory systems must send information back to the brain about how the environment looks and feels, and the child must be motivated to walk.

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Interesting Fact #3

When babies are born their bodies are sort of stuck in a flexed or fetal position having been in the womb that way for nine months. In the first few months, tummy time is critical to help babies stretch out the muscles on the front of their bodies and strengthen the neck and upper back. By the middle of the first year, babies begin to push up on their arms and come to hands and knees, strengthening their lower back, pelvis, hips and legs.

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Quote of the day

“Home is everything you can walk to.” ― Rebecca Solnit

Article of the day - Learning to walk

When will my baby learn to walk?

Walking for the first time is one of the many exciting and memorable milestones in your child's development. Your baby has been preparing to walk from an early age. Now all the rolling, sitting up, bottom shuffling, crawling, furniture cruising and standing results in your baby's newest adventure: first steps.

Babies usually start walking sometime between about 10 and 18 months of age. Before they start to walk, babies will usually have been crawling (between 7 and 12 months) and pulling themselves up to stand (usually between ages 9 and 12 months).

How does my baby develop walking skills?

To walk, your baby needs to have developed many skills, including:

  • balance
  • coordination
  • standing up
  • being able to shift their body weight from one leg to the other

Each new skill builds on the previous skills your baby has learnt. As your baby gets older, the skills they learn get more and more complex.

While your baby was busy crawling and pulling up to stand, then cruising between pieces of furniture, they were building muscle strength. They were also developing skills like balance and coordination, which are all needed for walking and later, running.

Once your baby starts to walk, they continue this process. They may experiment with moving from the floor to standing then back down again. They may move from sitting to standing and back again, walking, and then squatting to play. All these activities also help strengthen their muscles and balance. They'll keep on practicing and experimenting to improve their walking skills. They may walk in different directions, on different surfaces and while carrying large toys.

What can I do to help my baby learn to walk?

There are many things you can do to help your baby learn to walk. Be sure to give your baby space to toddle and a chance to pull themselves up on furniture, and take their first steps.

Show them that you're excited by offering praise and words of encouragement — your baby may not understand everything you say, but will hear your excitement in your tone of voice and notice your facial expressions.

Here are some more tips on helping your baby learn to walk:

Play together

Being with or near your child when they explore helps them feel safe and builds their confidence. It's also important to give them a bit of space to explore and take risks with their first steps as toddlers.

Encourage independent walking

Being active and moving around builds your child's muscle strength and posture, which helps your child get better at walking and prepares them for running.

You can start by positioning yourself about two metres from your baby and encouraging them to walk to you. Once they've achieved this you can increase the distance. You can encourage them to push a toy pram or trolley. Once they're confident walking around, you can set up an obstacle course with soft cushions or foam shapes to walk over or around.

Make your home safe

As your baby starts to move around the house more, keeping their play area clear ensures there are no accidents and creates lots of opportunities to walk and explore.

Do not use a baby walker — these do not help your baby learn to walk and can actually delay development of walking skills. They also cause thousands of injuries every year in Australia.

When should my baby start wearing shoes?

Your baby doesn't need to wear shoes unless they are going outside. When they are inside, letting them crawl and walk in bare feet helps their feet and toes develop normally. If it's cold, then wearing socks are fine. Choose non-slip socks or socks with grip to help prevent slips. These are available in most babywear stores and departments.

When choosing shoes for your baby, it's important that you get shoes that fit properly right from the very start. Poorly fitting shoes can lead to foot deformities, and make it harder for your baby to learn to walk.

When buying shoes for your child, you should consider having them properly measured to make sure they aren't too tight and provide the correct support.

Learn more about children's feet and how to choose the right shoes.

When should I seek help?

If your baby is 18 months or older and isn't walking on their own yet, or if you're concerned about any areas of your baby's development, contact your child's doctor or a child health nurse for advice.

You should also seek medical advice if your child has started to walk, but then begins to:

  • limp
  • waddle
  • refuse to walk

Resources and support

For more information about your baby's physical, emotional, social, language and cognitive development visit Starting Blocks.

Read the Pregnancy, Birth & Baby's guide to keeping baby safe.

Read more about your baby's growth and development in their first 12 months at Pregnancy, Birth & Baby's page.

Question of the day - What is an area in your life where you've had to show immense perseverance, and what did you learn from the experience?

Determination & Achievement

What is an area in your life where you've had to show immense perseverance, and what did you learn from the experience?