Career & Finance Fridays
Money & Finances
Paying Yourself First
If there was one thing I wish I’d learned earlier in life, it is the concept of paying myself first.
It’s actually not that I didn’t learn this concept, it’s that I didn’t learn to apply it to my life until I hit my 30s. In the grand scheme of things, it wasn’t like I was too late to start saving for retirement; however, the more time you have, the more you can leverage the power of compounding interest.
Learning to pay yourself first is a discipline. It’s also a matter of ensuring that you have enough income to be able to pay for your life and expenses, plus save. That part can be tricky when you’re starting out because you tend to have debt and very little savings. Think about starting out your life with no assets and a bunch of student loan debt. You also are just starting out in a new career and probably not making a huge amount of money. It’s a lot to balance all that, so it can be difficult to find enough margin to pay yourself first.
The thing is though, that we live in a culture that tells us to keep consuming more and more. We have a spending problem in our society and we have forgotten the difference between wants and needs. New clothes every month is not a need - it’s a want. A brand new car in the driveway is not a need. Sure, a vehicle might be a necessity, but a brand new one is not! Having a subscription service for every streaming platform out there is not a necessity, it’s a want. But many of us struggle to deprive ourselves of something that we want.
Finances can be a difficult topic because where we choose to spend our money can be a very emotionally driven aspect of our lives. The thing is that if we can learn the discipline of paying ourselves first, it will be a habit that will benefit us for the rest of our lives.