You never forget the first time you spent with your partner, but most people don't remember their second time. And it's not just about sex (although it's mostly about sex). You probably don't remember your second day at work, another car, another date.
When one of them doesn't have something great going on (like if the second date doesn't turn out to be something fun), your other usually forgets everything. This is where things start to mix. It's just kind of human nature.
Everyone remembers buying their first vibrator, and chances are, if you've ever shopped for sex toys a vibrator will probably be your first choice. But what will be your second sex toy, you may not remember it
There's a reason why the second toy is so important: you know exactly what sexual experiences turn you on and what excites you when you're taking another step in that direction.
Why does a vibrator remember
You remember this because the vibrator gives you a good chance to explore yourself alone or with your partner. It creates new sensations and allows you to feel things from angles that you may not be able to enter regularly.
So after spending some time with your vibrator, you're all set to try something new. What your second sex toy should depend on what ideas your vibrator has used.
Gain the way to the higher sensations
The first time I used the vibrator, I wasn't more surprised than anything. Because using it was not the first thing for me. And it was so exciting, that it gave me the feeling that I wanted to take it even higher.
I was blindfolded. While I don't love being blindfolded because of the surprise, anticipation, and intimacy, it is also true that your other senses become more intense if you are blindfolded. This toy involves touch and of course, involves sexual sensations.
Choosing the Path of New Openings
A friend of mine once told me that as soon as he began to explore the vibrator and the dildo, it was as if he had no senses in his body. However, she was not ready to have vigorous sex, and her girlfriend was very excited about it too, so she started with anal beads.
Pearls are a great introduction to anal pleasure because you can put them in as much or as little as you want. Not loud (or not), but instead, they tickle your prostate when you're having vaginal sex, orgasming, masturbating, or doing anything else. If you want, explore it with a partner or on your own. It totally depends on you what you want.
Don't let this unique buzz put you off.
A vibrator is both fun and exciting, and if you're like me, we're lifelong friends. But you don't have to stop there. Your vibrator can show you that there are many ways to enjoy sex, which you can explore with your partner. Or such ways that you can not even think of but never even though because you have to find them yourself.
So hurry up to get another sex toy. Find something that you want to try in a new way and something that matches with the feelings you have awakened in you. I promise you will remember it for the rest of your life with the same passion and excitement as you remember your first sex.
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